Some swingers are into exhibitionism and as such, some are also into dogging. Not me… it isn’t my scene but I know plenty who enjoy it and even in winter there’s no reason to not get out there and have some outdoor fun.

Doggers tend to get out into the fresh air during summer whereas once winter arrives, cars are brought into use and the old ‘car park’ dogging scene tends to take off.

There’s a car park just around the corner from us that’s usually home to a few steamed up cars of an evening and I’m betting there’s a place in your town that’s used for the same thing. A quick search on Google will no doubt give you more info if you’re interested in finding out where they hang out.

If you do decide to go along and see what winter dogging’s all about, remember that there are rules to follow.

Don’t just go bogging into people’s cars expecting to be invited to join the fun because it doesn’t work that way. Park up, turn your engine off but leave the interior light on. It’s the light that tells other doggers what or who you are.

If you see a couple having fun, watch by all means. If they’re up for a threesome, they’ll soon signal to you to come and join them. Then – and only then – should you approach.

A few well placed enquires at your local swingers club should also be helpful. Ask if anybody knows where there’s any ‘outdoor fun’ going on locally and what the local rules are. Sometimes thing can differ from area to area y’see, so it’s always best to check.

A threesome in a car sounds too much like hard work to me but if it’s your thing – or you just like watching – get out there and enjoy

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