Quite often, when I meet singles or couples who are considering swinging, I get the question: “will I/we enjoy it?” Unfortunately, that isn’t something I can answer.

Swinging is a personal thing – some people try and take to it immediately, continuing throughout their lives, others swing for a while or in periods and some find that it just isn’t for them.

But the fact that you don’t know for sure whether you’ll enjoy it beforehand isn’t really a good enough reason to not try, is it? After all, did you know for sure that you’d like the last country you visited for a holiday, or the meal you ordered in a restaurant? Life is all about taking chances and trying swinging is just another one of those chances.

The only stipulation I’d set is that, if you’re in a relationship, both of you are happy to try. Because just as you need to be in agreement about your holiday destination or which restaurant to dine at, you need to agree that swinging is something you want to try.

One thing’s for sure, unless you’ve tried something you can’t possibly know whether you’ll enjoy it so if you’ve been considering trying swinging, why not give it a go? If it isn’t for you, nobody’s going to demand you continue, are they?

Sadie xx

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