Every swinger has his or her own reasons for wanting to be part of the community and as voyeurism is a huge turn on for many, it’s hardly surprising that a percentage of voyeurs end up as swingers, especially if they happy to have an exhibitionist partner.
Voyeurism is the term used to describe those who like to watch others having sex. Within the swinging community, most voyeurs are those who enjoy watching their partner have sex with another, although that isn’t always the case. Some enjoy watching total strangers have sex just as much as watching their wives or husbands.
Voyeurs often like to watch from a distance rather than as a participant. Luckily, most swingers clubs have arrangements to satisfy voyeurs in that they have rooms with windows leading into other rooms/corridors where couples can have sex while others sit quietly and watch. Those inside the room usually have no idea whether or not they’re being watched or who’s doing the watching.
I have to admit that while I’m definitely into the physical side of swinging, there are times when the voyeur in me comes out and I love just sitting watching Malc with a beautiful woman. They always know I’m there (well, almost always) and in a sense you could say I’m participating but when I’m in my voyeur mood, I don’t touch at all. Except for myself. After all, nobody can be expected to watch their partner have sex without wanting to masturbate, can they?
Sadie xxx
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