When Malc and I placed an ad on a swingers site, we were surprised at the number of replies we had from couples wanting to speak to us via webcam and skype.

While neither of us are particularly worried about our lifestyle being discovered, it’s still not something we bandy about all over the place. How we lead our sexual lives isn’t anybody’s business but ours.

The reason we refused to use a webcam is because stills can easily be saved and distributed through cyberspace and, as I mentioned in an earlier post, photo collectors exist.

I’ll always maintain that if you’re interested in getting to know somebody you’ve met online then it’s better to arrange an informal meet at a café or similar without any previous exchange of photographs or webcam chats. OK, so maybe that’s a bit inconvenient if you’re not local but if you really think somebody’s worth meeting then surely they’re worth putting yourself out for, too?

Sadie xx

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