Lack of personal cleanliness and swinging simply do not match. I really can’t stress that enough.

Although it should be a given that anybody even thinking about having sex with somebody should ensure that their bodies are scrupulously clean, the sad truth is that some just don’t bother.

Our club’s management are very fussy about who they’ll let in; everybody has to be well-dressed (no dirty trainers, no grubby jeans, no greasy hair unless it’s styled that way, etc etc). They have a certain standard they adhere to and for that I shall be eternally grateful.

If you’re planning to visit a swingers’ club or will be meeting somebody privately for sex, stop and give some serious thought to your personal hygiene. Would you want to go down on somebody who hadn’t washed their bits after using the toilet? And while fresh sweat is charged with pheromones, old sweat has the opposite affect and just isn’t nice at all. Smelly breath’s not exactly a turn on either!

Clothes are another area you should be giving some thought to. Is your underwear fresh? Is everything you’re wearing clean on today?

Keep perfumed products to a minimum. Some people are allergic to them and others just don’t like certain scents so it’s better to go au naturelle. That doesn’t mean dump the deo though – there are plenty non-scented products available.

I apologise to all those regular readers who wouldn’t dream of meeting anybody, for sex or otherwise, without being aware of their personal cleanliness, but I’m hoping that through this post, I may be able to persuade a few of the less savoury ’swingers’ to be a little more conscientious.

Until tomorrow….

Sadie xx

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