Sometimes it seems as though handjobs have gone out of fashion because most women want to get straight into oral, but I know through talking with lots of men that a nice slow handjob with lots of lube can be one of the most erotic experiences they have.
Let’s face it, everybody masturbates so why shouldn’t a guy enjoy having somebody else, somebody he fancies do it for him? He’d be mad not to, wouldn’t he?
In fact, there are times when a handjob can be as good as a blowjob and when time’s short, it’s a great way of giving him some pleasure and relief without anybody necessarily realising what’s going on.
Like I said, you need a good lube if you’re going to give a really good handjob. I generally use ID Millennium, because it really does give a lovely smooth feel so that you hand just slides up and down effortlessly. Malc loves the sensation, too. Other times, if I think I might go down on him, I use flavoured lubricants. My favourite is Passion Fruit flavour although Malc loves Big Banana (probably because he thinks his ‘little soldier’ reminds me of one!).
Unless you’re in a hurry, take it slowly and let your man savour the feel of the handjob you’re giving him. Believe me, he’ll thank you for it later! Who knows, he may even return the favour!
Sadie xxx
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