Exhibitionism is, as you would expect, relatively common within the swinging community. Most members of our club certainly like to show off and are perfectly happy to be watched regardless of what they’re doing.

BUT – and this is a big but – don’t assume that just because a person is a swinger that he or she will automatically like being watched. There are plenty of swingers who would rather have sex in a private room where nobody else can see. It’s just the fact that they can have sex with a variety of partners that has led them into swinging, not the exhibitionism involved. Because of this, most clubs will have private rooms available.

Exhibitionism can also be taken further. Some exhibitionists are only happy if they can be watched by total strangers. Yes, I know some of the members of swingers clubs will be strangers but in this respect I mean members of the public who aren’t expecting to see somebody exposing themselves or having sex. Sometimes they’ll have sex in front of a window in a well lit room (I’ve seen this several times myself) and it’s to satisfy the exhibitionist as well as the voyeur that dogging has become so popular.

If exhibitionism is your thing then there’s no reason why you shouldn’t enjoy it. I would suggest you don’t show off in places where minors are likely to see you, though. You don’t want to get done for indecent exposure, do you?