If you’ve been thinking about using and sharing sex toys in a group setting, your very own Aunt Sadie has these words of wisdom for you.Introducing your sex toy in a group environment obviously requires consent, so talk about the idea beforehand with your swinging partners.

So let’s say you have consent from your group to use your sex toy, you’re armed and lusty, but what now?

You could start things off with a sensuous group massage with heat sensitive oils, just to rake up the embers. Make delightful caresses with French ticklers, feathers or fur gloves. By stoking the coals you’ll get everyone’s fires started.

When everyone is heating up, why not try some light paddling, blindfolds or a vibrator massage?

Double ended dildos can make mischievous how-do-you-dos, while clitoral stimulators can put the finishing touch on your red hot bonfire.

With the dazzling variety of sex toys available, the possibilities for group play seem endless.

Use your imagination to make the most of your group sex toy experience. Just try to be creative and have lots of fun but remember that sex toy must be kept clean and free of bacteria.

If you plan on using your sex toy for penetration, it’s extremely important that you never use it penetrate the anus and then penetrate the vagina without a proper cleaning and do use condoms on any toys used for penetrative sex. Condoms provide a barrier against infection and are an absolute must.

Have lots of fun folks!