One of the problems women often have is that their men are apprehensive about going along with a MMF threesome because of their fear of touching another man (or being touched).

While I can understand the problem, it’s important that men understand that in a MMF there WILL be some degree of touching but that it won’t necessarily be deliberately erotic. It’s hard, after all, for two men to move around a woman without brushing against each other at some point.

It’s sad that our society has taught men that touching each other is a bad thing because in truth, humans need to touch each other in order to stay healthy. Men in our society tend to believe that if they touch each other in a sexual situation, even if it’s just a matter of brushing against each other, then that makes them gay.

What a silly conception! I regularly touch other women and I even have sex with them but I don’t see myself as a lesbian. I don’t even see myself as bi-sexual in that I wouldn’t be comfortable in a relationship with another woman. I enjoy sex with women but that’s it. To be gay takes a lot more than just sex.

If you’re a man who’s worried about a MMF threesome for this reason, please lighten up. Touching won’t hurt you and it isn’t a threat to your masculinity. And why should you get the pleasure of a MFF threesome but deny your partner the pleasure of a MMF?

Sadie xx

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