If you’re a swinger, or even just considering joining the swinging community, one thing that’s really important is that you make sure unwanted pregnancies don’t occur.Now, this may sound like I’m ‘waving the finger’, but in amongst the fun that’s had by swingers, there are serious sides that shouldn’t be ignored. It’s just a matter of responsibility - being an adult.

Swingers have sex with a plethora of partners, right? Sometimes I’ve had a dozen sexual partners in the same week so if I’d become pregnant, how the hell would I ever have known who the father was? I wouldn’t have a snowball’s chance of knowing, it’s as simple as that! And while Malc is perfectly ok with my shagging around, he sure as hell doesn’t want me bringing home other men’s babies. When we decide to start our family, he’ll want to know that the children are his, which is only fair, after all.

While most swingers are happy using condoms to safeguard against sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), there are still some who forget that a woman can become pregnant through just a few drops of pre-cum getting inside her, or having cum shot on her and then perhaps transferred via fingers. Sounds unlikely, I know, but trust me, it can and does happen!

All I’m saying is be careful.

Sadie xx