This one’s following on from yesterday’s post because while it’s important to understand the clit, you won’t get far without knowing how to stimulate her pussy.First of all, it’s really important that she’s wet enough before you try pushing your fingers inside her. This is where stimulating the vulva and clitoris can be useful, but if she’s still not properly lubricated, get some saliva or lubricating fluid down there.

Once she’s good and wet it’s time to start opening her up. Don’t just shove your fingers inside - take it from me, that just isn’t erotic. In fact, it’s bloody uncomfortable and will probably put her right off.

What you need to do is gently massage the opening to her vagina, sliding a finger inside as you go. Once you have one finger inside, move it rhythmically until she opens enough to enable you to insert two.

Two fingers inside mean you can give her lots of mind-blowing stimulation. Move your fingers alternately inside her, open them sideways, pushing against the walls of her vagina, twist them around… try out different ways of moving your fingers and watch how she reacts. As with clitoral stimulation, her body language will tell you what works and what doesn’t.

And if you want to put icing on the cake (and who doesn’t?), gently rub her clit while you’re fingering her. Believe me, if you give her what she wants in this department, you’ll be guaranteed some intense sex to follow.

Sadie xxx

~~+~~