I’ve known quite a few women who would like to have one or both nipples pierced but because they’re quite shy (yes, swingers can be shy too!), they’ve held back from doing it.

You see, it’s one thing to get naked with a stranger when you know that person’s also a swinger but to get your tits out, so to speak, in front of a stranger in a non-sexual situation can still be quite embarrassing. If you’re a swinger, you’ll understand 

What I want to say is that feeling shy in front of a body piercer is perfectly normal - few women are happy to present their breasts to strangers, especially when they know that the stranger is going to perform an operation that could be painful. Piercers are used to it so there’s really nothing to worrtty about on that score.

To make it easier on yourself, it’s best to dress in a way that will make revealing your breast(s) easy. A blouse without a bra beneath it is ideal. That way, you don’t even have to expose the whole breast if you don’t want to.

Don’t worry about the anxiety you’re likely to feel beforehand, either. Anxiety will release endorphins that act as pain relievers, which, in situations like this, is a good thing. Not that having your nipple pierced is an excruciating experience but obviously there will be some pain involved.

If your nipples are unusual — by that I mean inverted or flat — it’s best to discuss this with the piercer beforehand. He or she may ask to see your nipple because that will make it easier to decide whether or not a piercing is possible.

If you do want your nipple pierced and you decide to go ahead, just relax and think about all the fun that’s waiting for you in the future.

Sadie xxx

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