How often haven’t you arrived home from work, all tensed up and stressed, and wished somebody would give you a full-body massage?

I know I have, and I know Malc has, too. That’s why we decided to learn how to give each other a sensual massage and have never looked back since.

You know, when a couple get naked, everything they do doesn’t necessarily have to lead to sex. The intimacy of being naked together in a candle lit room, touching and rubbing each other, can be just as good as full intercourse at times. Everything has its place.

It’s important that you have a good quality massage oil as anything else just doesn’t set the right mood. Baby oil will work but the scent isn’t right. Most people don’t want to be reminded of babies while they’re being massaged! My personal favourite is Sweet Almond, which smells delicious. I wonder which one you’d like most.

These oils contain natural essential oils, skin-smoothing emollients and nourishing Vitamin E so you’ll be doing your skin good while you’re massaging. That can’t be bad, can it? You don’t need a whole lot either - a little goes a long way.

Along with the oils, I use a Hand Massager, this time from She Desires. With one of these nifty little gadgets, you don’t need to worry about your technique because just by increasing and decreasing the pressure, you’ll be able to give the massage of a lifetime.

I’m not saying that a relaxing massage is everybody’s cup of tea but if your partner tends to feel stressed in the evening, it’s well worth giving it a try.

Sadie xxx

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