Some people think that all swingers are pretty much the same but nothing could be further from the truth. Just because a person enjoys having sex with others than their partner, doesn’t mean they all like the same kind of sex or with the same kind of people.

Some swingers are what I call “lopsided swingers”. By that I mean one part might want to have a threesome with somebody of the opposite sex but isn’t willing to go the other way so that their own partner can experience the same kind of thing. Did I explain that clear enough?

Let’s say Malc wanted to have a threesome with two women and I agreed but although I wanted to have a threesome with two men, Malc wouldn’t agree. That’s what I call lopsided swinging.

It would be fair enough if I didn’t want a MMF — there are lots of couples who only ever have threesomes the one way because that’s what they both want — but I can’t help feeling it’s wrong when only one gets the threesome of his or her desire. Isn’t the some kind of selfishness going on there?

I truly believe it’s important that these things are talked about properly beforehand so that nobody is left feeling that they’ve been cheated. It’s things like that that are likely to wreck a relationship, not the actual swinging itself, although according to the media, it’s always the act of swinging that causes marital breakdown.

Discuss. Talk. Be open and honest. It’s the only way.

Sadie xxx

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