Going Soft with a Condom
I must have one of those faces that attract people to open up to me because I’m forever having to dish out advice. And not only to friends, either. No, people who are almost strangers come up to me to ask for swinging advice. It doesn’t bother me, though - I’m generally more than happy to help where I can.
Just yesterday I had a lady approach me regarding her first experience of swinging with a couple that she and her other half had met through an online swingers site. They’d exchanged emails for a while and eventually arranged to meet at a restaurant for a meal and, after spending the evening together, decided they’d like to go ahead and meet in private. At this point, all was well.
Both couples booked into a Blackpool hotel for the Saturday night and Jennie (the lady who approached me) and her partner were very much looking forward to a sexy weekend.
The two couples had a drink in the bar — but not enough as to affect performance — before going up to one of the rooms to play. The first half an hour or so went well but when it came to putting a condom on the male of the other couple (we’ll call him David), as soon as he got it on, he went soft. Jennie blew him while her own husband and David’s wife enjoyed some intimate fun of their own, and he soon grew nice and hard again. Once again Jennie put a condom on him and once again he went soft.
To cut a long story short, David simply wasn’t able to sustain an erection as long as he was wearing a condom and Jennie, quite sensibly, wasn’t going to have sex without one. In the end she played with her husband while David’s partner sorted him out.
The reason I’m telling you this story is because it’s something I’ve personally come across and have also heard from others before. For some men, the feel of a condom on the penis is so uncomfortable that they lose their erection almost immediately but this is a problem that can be overcome with practise.
If you want to swing, you’re going to have to accept that a condom is part of the package and practise at home before you go out and meet others to play with. It may take a while but you’ll only get there if you persevere.
Good luck.
Sadie xxx
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