One of the most common fantasies that women have is sex with another woman, especially with a woman they don’t know.

All sorts of studies have shown that there’s a far greater likelihood of a woman being bi-sexual than a man, so it could be for that reason that it’s always been more acceptable for a woman to want sex with somebody else of the same sex than if a man does the same. It’s also far more usual for threesomes to consist of two women than two men.

When asked why they fantasise about sex with another woman, most women say it’s because women know better how to satisfy a woman than men ever will. Given that we’re a pretty complicated bunch when it comes to bedroom fun, that could well be right.

One of the things that non-swingers are often surprised about is that it’s more often the women in a relationship that suggest trying partner swaps, threesomes and the rest, rather than the man. The men are generally happy to go along with whatever ideas their women have, but they rarely suggest it.

When you visit swingers clubs, you’ll also find that there are generally more women than men. This isn’t because single men don’t want to swing, but rather because too many men would just mean there wouldn’t be enough play to go round. For more on this, see my post of the 10th on the subject.

As Cyndi Lauper once sang, girls just wanna have fun!

~ Sadie xx

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