I bet you do!

I’ve yet to meet a man who hasn’t fantasised about a threesome and a hell of a lot of women are turned on by the idea, too. The problem is, for most, that they don’t know how to go about finding somebody to join them, either a single if they’re already part of a couple or vice versa. And even when they find a website that has swingers advertising on it, they often don’t understand the terminology.

The first thing to remember is that you need to know beforehand exactly who you’re looking for. If, for example, your wife isn’t interested in sex with another woman, there’s little point in answering ads from bi-sexual women. Similarly, if you’re a bi-sexual guy, you’ll want to find ads placed by couples who are looking for somebody who will service them both.

It might well be worthwhile placing an ad of your own, too. That way you can make it clear exactly who you’re looking for, how far you can travel, whether you can accommodate, etc etc. By being as clear as possible, there’s far less chance of meeting others who, when it cums to it, aren’t actually suitable at all.

When it comes to the two main types of threesomes, remember the following:

FFM: this means two females and a male and is the most common type of threesome. In most cases the females will be bi so it’s probably safe to assume so if nothing else is mentioned. It’s always worth asking to be sure, though.

FMM: you’ve probably guessed that this one means one female and two men. Although not as common as FFM, it’s a whole lot of fun and well worth experimenting with. The guys don’t have to be bi and in these cases, if they are they probably WILL mention it. Even if you’re mostly into FFM, you’ll probably find that most women will be only too pleased to be serviced by two guys… and a lot of male partners enjoy watching their wives/partners being given a good seeing to.

If you think a threesome is something you’d seriously like to try, why not sign up at Adult Connexxxions – one of the biggest swingers dating sites I’ve found. I’ve used it on several occasions myself and haven’t been disappointed

Sadie xxx

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