While a lot of swingers enjoy sex with others present, some prefer what’s known as ‘closed swinging’. This simply means partners have sex in different rooms, removed from other guests.During a ‘closed swinging’ session, couples are free to explore their passions without interruptions or distractions from other guests and even though it may take some time to find partners for closed swinging, it’s generally well worth it.

There’s something decidedly naughty about getting randy in a quiet space while a successful swinger’s party rages all around you! It’s kind of the opposite of society’s norm if you get what I mean.

Mind you, ‘closed swinging’ isn’t something you can just jump into. It takes time to get to know another couple enough that you can feel comfortable with them alone so be prepared to put the effort into building a closed swinging relationship.

Don’t rush it and don’t advertise for it - closed swinging is something that has to come naturally. It’s important that not only you but your partner also feels comfortable with whoever you’ll be alone with.

If it happens for you, enjoy it. I certainly do.

Sadie xxx