What I’m going to say now may sound really basic but you’d be amazed at the number of men who really don’t ‘get it’.

Women like men! Yes, yes… I know a lot of us like women too, but when it comes to our choice of male partner, we like men.

Confused? Think I’m stating the obvious? Read on.

For a long time you guys have been told that women want the ‘meek man’, a man who’s more like a woman than a man - a man who will cook the dinner, feed the baby, iron the clothes. And while it’s true that we do appreciate some help around the house, when it comes to sex, we want A MAN.

Unless you’re interacting with a particularly dominant woman, the chances are your partner will be much happier if you let your hunter/gatherer/protector instincts run amok by showing your dominant side. The side that shows her you’re in control.

I don’t mean she wants you to be manipulative and [word]–that’s a completely different ballgame and has nothing to do with good sex. What I’m talking about is showing her that you can give her a good time by taking her needs into consideration in a dominant, and perhaps slightly arrogant, manner.

Women like bad boys who know how to treat them well. Learn how to be one and you’ll be well away!

Sadie xxx

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