It’s Saturday again and this time my terminology post is going to cover soft and hard swinging.
Soft Swinging
This is often the kind of swinging that couples (and singles) often start with when they join a club. Basically it covers any kind of sex other than intercourse with somebody other than your partner.
This includes:
- Watching other have intercourse
- Being watched while you have intercourse with your partner
- Oral Sex
- Massage
- Bi-sex (without penetration if two men are together)
- Same Room Sex
Although I’ve been into the swinging scene for more years than I can remember, there are still times when I prefer to stick to soft swinging and you’ll find that the same applies to most swingers.
Hard Swinging
No doubt you’ve guessed that hard swinging involves full intercourse. Anal sex is also considered hard swinging.
A hard swing party is a party where full sexual interaction is expected so don’t accept an invite unless you’re sure you’re going to be happy with that.
Sadie xxx
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