I’ve just been looking through my past blogs and realised I posted one ages ago about women’s fantasies where I promised I’d come back to each of the fantasies I’d mentioned and give each a closer look. Then what did I do? Went and forgot it. Would you believe I get paid for doing this?
Anyway, I really am going to try to pull my socks up from now so that when I promise something I do it. But for the time being, let’s take a closer look at why women fantasise about having sex with a stranger.
Let’s get one thing straight: I’m not a psychologist or a doctor or anything else related to the medical profession. What I say here is purely my own view, a view that’s developed through many years of watching the behaviour of friends and thinking about what I do and don’t enjoy myself.
When it comes to sex with a stranger, I’m pretty sure the fantasy lies in women’s desire to be sexually unihibited. The stranger represents freedom because he or she isn’t tied to anybody or anything specific.
Most women who have this fantasy would never actually have sex with a total stranger, the fantasy is simply an extension of masturbation. It’s a representation of total abandon, which is the feeling we usually when masturbating. We’re alone, and we’re free to do whatever we want.
Personally, I love fantasising about sex with a stranger, only because I’m a swinger, I also have sex with strangers, too. Which is best? I really can’t say and that’s because they truly are two entirely different things.
Sadie xxx
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