Just a quick post today folks because I’m busy getting myself ready to ‘accommodate’ a couple that my husband and I meet up with once a month, but it’s this particular couple that set me thinking about the subject of setting the rules.

Y’see, the husband of the pair likes to tie me up then sit back and watch while I suck my husband off and his wife goes down on me. Now, we’ve known this couple for about three years now and it took a while before I was comfortable enough to go along with this. Being tied up wasn’t something I’d ever tried before, or even fantasised about.

The point is, sooner or later you’ll meet other swingers who will want more of you than you’re willing to give so always make it clear where your limits are and that you demand respect. If a prospective sex partner can’t respect your limits and continues to push, then take my advice and back away. Seriously. Those who can’t show that kind of respect just aren’t worth getting involved with – there are plenty more swingers out there who will respect you and who you can truly enjoy being with without feeling under pressure.

In the case of tonight’s visitors, both of them mentioned the rope scenario a couple of times after I’d said no, but I hadn’t said “No, definitely not”, I’d said “No, that’s not something I feel comfortable with now but maybe when we know each other better”. That left the possibility open and we all knew where we stood. Sure enough, when I felt more comfortable with them I brought the subject up and we gave it a go. The rest, as they say, is history!

Sadie xxx

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