If you’re thinking about getting into the swinging community there’s one thing you should understand the importance of: respect for others’ privacy.
Although you may be perfectly happy to have every Tom, Dick and Harry know that you’re a swinger, the same doesn’t go for all swingers so the golden rule is to NEVER name drop. Ever! Not even if you’re sure the person you’d be talking about wouldn’t mind.
Letting name’s slip — or even any information that could lead to others knowing who a swinger is — is the fastest way to be frozen out of the community. NOBODY wants to swing with a ‘mouth’ and word will soon get around.
It may sound as if I’m being really strict but I’m only giving you it as it is because once you’ve been pushed out, you’ll have a bloody hard time getting back in. In fact, I doubt you’ll ever be accepted back in without either moving to a new area or finding newbie swingers to meet. But even they — assuming they get into the scene — will eventually hear that you’re not to be trusted.
Please… just be careful. Names aren’t to be bandied about. If somebody shares their details with you, they’re doing it in strictest confidence. Don’t let them down.
Sadie xxx
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