An increasingly popular game amongst swinging couples is ‘real wife swapping’, a game that differs from traditional wife swapping where the swapping simply involved sex.

‘Real wife swapping’ involves swapping partners for a whole weekend, sometimes even a week. They live as a couple would, doing the chores etc., as well as having lots of horny sex.

Some couples choose to go away during the swap, mostly to make sure the neighbours don’t start wondering what’s going on, but also because it’s nice to get away to new surroundings with a new ‘partner’.

Although the couples don’t see or contact their ‘proper’ partners at all during the swap, they do meet beforehand to discuss anything limits they’d like imposed. Some husbands might not be happy with their wives having anal sex, or giving blow jobs, while some wives might not want their husband going down on another woman. It’s important that everything’s out in the open beforehand.

Obviously, some swaps are arranged between couples who know each other well and who swap regularly, but there are also arranged wife swaps where couples swap with strangers. If you’re thinking of joining such a swap, it’s important you meet your swapping couple a few times before the actual swap so that you can get a feel for what kind of people they are and build up some trust – you’re going to be spending a whole weekend alone with him/her, after all. If you’re not happy with any aspect of the swap, don’t go through with it. The same goes if you go ahead with the swap but find you’re not happy with it – don’t be afraid to call it off. It’s your life and you choose what you do and don’t do with it.

However, most swaps go well and couples often go back for me so ‘real wife swapping’ can definitely bring a new dimension to your life.

Sadie xxx