Today’s lesson: Oral Sex.What do you do when you give oral? My betting is that if you’re female, you have your fella laying on his back while you lay on your side next to him giving him a blow job. If you’re a bloke you probably have your lady laying on her back with her legs open with you stuck between them while you do your thing. Am I right?

If you said no, then your partner’s one of the lucky ones. But if you said yes, you’ve lots to learn. The thing is, you can be just as adventurous while giving oral as you can during ‘the real deal’, y’know.

Ok, so there are some books available that’ll have you trying to hold your woman upside down with her legs hooked around your neck while you stick your head between her legs and she gives you a suck off, but who the hell can stay in that kind of position long enough to cum? That’s assuming we can get into it in the first place, of course. No, what I’m talking about are sensible positions that most of us can manage.

One that I particularly like is to sit on the edge of the bed/sofa/chair or whatever with my legs open while Malc (or whoever) kneels in front of me. It opens me right up so he can bore his tongue right in and he loves it because he can see me. Swap positions and you’ll find that’s equally as exciting because he can see you sucking him off. And what’s more, you don’t have to twist your neck to get your lips around him.

Malc’s favourite is to have me sit on his face. He loves the feeling of being smothered by me and it’s good for me because I have some control over what’s going on.

When it comes to oral sex, how you go about it is just a matter of where the limits of your imagination are. Try something new next time and you’ll be surprised how much it can improve your sex life.

Sadie xxx

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