Occasionally Malc and I arrange a party where swinging isn’t on the cards and yet we still have a few swinging friends that we invite along with our non-swinging friends. However, if you’re going to mix swinging and non-swinging friends together, you have to be very careful.
Unless you’re the type of person/couple who really doesn’t mind who does or doesn’t know what you do under the duvet and with whom, I really can’t stress how important it is that you only ever invite swinging friends that you trust 100% if you’re planning to invite non-swinging friends, too. After all, all it takes is a quick slip or the tongue and all of your friends will know what you get up to.
Really, it’s a matter of using your common sense. You know yourself who you think will mix well and who won’t and who you can and can’t trust.
Sadie xx
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