Sorry guys but I just couldn’t find any other way of putting it – either you can get it up or you can’t, right?
Anyway, the point is, if you’re one of those who has trouble getting an erection, you’re probably wondering whether there’s any point in your visiting a swingers club or answering any ads on swingers contact sites.
Unfortunately, there’s no easy answer to this although you will be glad to know that I’m not going to say outright NO. There are plenty of women who don’t feel a need to be penetrated in order to be sexually satisfied and there are soft swingers who don’t want penetration to be part of the experience so for either of those groups, guys who are suffering impotence aren’t going to have a problem.
Rather than join a swingers club, I’d put an ad on a swingers contact site explaining your situation and calling for contact with soft swingers who will be happy to enjoy your company without penetration. That way, anybody you meet will know beforehand exactly what the situation is and there will be no disappointment on either side.
Sadie xxx
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