I hate to get all preachy but I’m sick and tired of listening to people tell me what a bad person I am because I choose to follow a swinging lifestyle.
Surely it’s up to each and every one of us to decide how we want to live? In my book there’s a simple rule and it’s one that most of us follow: do unto others as you wish others to do unto you. In other words, be nice!
By choosing a swinging lifestyle none of us are hurting anybody. Swingers are all consenting adults who have chosen to share their sexuality with a variety of people rather than stick with one partner. If that’s what we want to do then who are others to tell us it’s wrong? I don’t go around telling them they’re wrong because they choose to stick with one person, do I? No, of course I don’t!
It’s no wonder most swingers keep their lifestyle choice to themselves and are afraid of it becoming common knowledge. I don’t go around shouting about my swinging lifestyle either, but there are those who know because I’ve never kept it entirely quiet either. My family know, and my friends all know. I’m not ashamed. Why should I be?
All I can say is if you’re approached by somebody telling you that you’ll spend the rest of eternity regretting your choice, the best thing to do is to tell them calmly that it’s your choice and while you respect their lifestyle you insist on the same in return. From thereon in it’s best to ignore anything more that’s said.
We live our lives in a way that suits us. We only have this one life (nobody has yet managed to prove otherwise) so why shouldn’t we enjoy it in whatever way we like?
Sadie xxx
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