I’ve mentioned this before on this blog but because it’s an important subject and mistake too many make, I’ve decided to cover the subject of booze again.
Quite simply, lay off it. Swingers do not like drunks.
Nobody’s saying you shouldn’t enjoy a glass of wine or even a whisky or similar, but everything within reason. Don’t get drunk – don’t even get tipsy. It really isn’t welcome.
Not only will you be off-putting to those who are looking for somebody to swing with, you’ll also find that your own performance will be impaired.
And don’t try that “I can drink and still shag a woman senseless” line because I’m not buying it. Like every other drunk, you believe you can do what you can’t. Just like some drunks think they drive better when they’ve had a few over the limit, you may think you’re great in bed when you’ve had a bevvy or two but the chances are you won’t be.
Drinking and swinging simply don’t go together. Sex should be the stimulant you need, so why drown it out with alcohol?
If you’re new to swinging it’s very easy to make the mistake of drinking too much but take my advice and don’t. You’ll enjoy your time with others so much more if you lay off the booze.
Sadie xxx
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