Yesterday I gave you a quick run through how to finger a woman and being as I said I’d come back to male masturbation later when I wrote about oral sex earlier in the week, today seemed like a good time to dive into the subject.

First of all, the same rule applies to women as to men – be careful! Men don’t want their todgers yanked away from their bodies!

Second rule: remember that all men are different. Just because one likes you to grip his cock hard and squeeze his balls while wanking him, doesn’t mean the next guy’s going to want the same. As with everything sexual, what works is largely a matter of trial and error. And believe me, that’s coming from somebody who’s had sex with more partners than I’ve had … well, hot dinners!

Try different hand positions (thumb and forefingers on the shaft – whole hand gripping the shaft), different stroke speeds, different motions (move your hand directly up and down – use a circular motion) and different intensities with regard to the pressure you apply.

If you want your man to come quickly it’s important you keep your stroke going in the same rhythm when he approaches orgasm. If you want to draw it out, slow down when you notice he’s getting close to bring him slightly off the boil again. But that doesn’t mean stop.

You could try lubricating your hands before masturbating him and holding around him with both hands to simulate a vagina.

Use your imagination and listen to what your partner tells you. Watch his physical reactions and above all else, enjoy pleasuring him.

Sadie xxx

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