Just a short one today as I’ve been really busy.
I’ve noticed that as soon as people find out I’m a swinger, they expect me to be having rampant, gratuitous sex every day, for breakfast, lunch and tea. They imagine that the only thing I ever think about is where the next shag’s coming from and that I’m not in the least bit fussy who I have sex with.
What a load of bollocks!
What they don’t expect is for me to enjoy a good old fashioned kiss and cuddle, but we swingers need that kind of comfort and warmth in our relationships, too. In fact there are times when I really don’t want anything more than to get naked and sit in the sofa with Malc, his arm around me while I cuddle up to him, my head resting on his chest, while we watch a film and share a bottle of wine. Bliss!
Everybody needs a good cuddle sometimes so if you’re one of those swingers who believes all body contact has to orbit around sex, think again. Kissing and cuddling can go a long way and is hugely important for bonding.
Try it. I think you’ll like it.
Sadie xxx