Lord, if I can’t be skinny, please let all my friends be fat!
People come in all shapes and sizes and this is just as true amongst swingers as anywhere else. Unfortunately, when we look at porn mags and women’s magazines, it can sometimes be hard to believe, but don’t be misled.
Unless you’re suffering from anorexia and weighing in at just a fraction of what your ideal weight should be, or are morbidly obese to the point where walking is almost an impossibility, your body is probably normal.
My regular swingers club is a prime example. One of the girls I ‘enjoy’ is about 5′4″ and must wear a size 18. One of the guys has a very pronounced beer belly, but he’s in his 60s and looks damned good for his age is you ask me.
The thing is, while people are sitting around worrying about bearing all at a swingers club because their tits point south or their arse has seen better days, the truth is, swingers are probably amongst the most tolerant people you’ll find when it comes to body image. After all, we see ‘real’ people naked far more often than most, and know that the majority simply don’t have model bodies.
My advice to you is: if you really want to give swinging a go, pop along to your local club and just mingle. You don’t have to take your clothes off. After a while you’ll see for yourself that you’re actually not that different from most of us.
Sadie xxx