Lots of men are afraid to introduce the idea of spanking to their women, even though countless surveys have shown that it’s one of men’s hottest fantasies. Why? Because they believe that their partner will think they’re kinky and be turned off them, leaving them with less sex than they’re getting at the moment.

Quite honestly, I believe that if you really want to try something that isn’t going to cause any harm to anybody then there’s absolutely no reason not to suggest it. Of course, some men are coupled up with extremely prudish women, in which case they’ll either have to learn to live a very vanilla lifestyle or find another partner, but most women are open to new suggestions.

When Malc first suggested spanking to me I wasn’t too sure myself – I thought it would hurt and pain really wasn’t my thing! But we had a session with just a few spanks each (yes, take turns… it’s important that it isn’t just you doing the spanking unless your partner really wants to be submissive, in which case you’ll no doubt have started spanking her ages ago anyway!) and ended up having a damned good laugh! I didn’t feel turned on by it, but I enjoyed the fun.

Eventually, after a few spanking sessions, I started to feel that there was indeed something erotic about it, both when Malc was doing the spanking and when I was spanking him! And our sex life certainly didn’t suffer for it!

Obviously, people will react differently – if your partner tries and decides it’s not for her then so be it, but unless you approach the subject, you’ll really never know, will you?

Sadie xx

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