I’ve mentioned this before of the blog but it’s a long time since so I figured it couldn’t hurt to bring it up again, especially as it’s an important subject.
If you want to enjoy swinging, don’t drink too much alcohol!
It’s very easy to turn to the bottle for some ‘Dutch Courage’ when you’re new to swinging and feeling a little nervous but, believe me, drunks are not popular amongst swingers.
A couple of drinks are fine (as long as you can actually handle a couple without them having too much affect), but if you need to get out of your head in order to swing then you really shouldn’t be doing it. Swinging’s about relaxing in a sexual environment, not getting blind drunk.
Drunks can be abusive at worse, and even if that isn’t you, nobody wants their evening spoiled by somebody who slurs, can’t walk straight and is likely to have moved their barriers further than they ought to have, often believing that it’s ok to touch even when they’re told no.
And then there’s the ability to perform. Everybody knowsor should knowthat alcohol affects the way the blood is carried to the penis, making it difficult for men to sustain an erection.
Really, this is one subject where you really ought to take my advice because this could seriously affect whether or not you’ll be welcome amongst swingers or not.
Don’t drink more than you can handle without it affecting your behaviour!
Sadie xxx
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