I’ve often thought it strange that men are perfectly willing to let perfect strangers put their dicks in their mouths. I mean, there are teeth there! Teeth are dangerous! All I can say is you guys must either be desperate for head, like to live dangerously or are unbelievably trusting.
But anyway, fellatio is said to be the number one sexual act desired by men so I suppose that explains it. And as such, I thought it’d be a good idea to give the female visitors to this blog a quick run down on how to perform oral.
I’ve already blogged about Conquering Jaw Ache and Finding The Right Position so you might want to look at both posts, too. There’s no point in me repeating myself here, after all.
First of all, it’s important to understand that you can read so many how-tos that you have them coming out of your ears but unless you actually get down there and do it, you’ll never learn.
It’s also important that you want to give head. If the idea leaves you cold then you’re better off not doing it. For your own sake and for your partner’s because he’s hardly going to enjoy it if your heart’s not in it.
The best position to be is on top. If he’s perched above you, ask him to lay on his back as this is without doubt the easiest position for you. When learning, it’s important that you are in control.
Start by gently licking the head. Don’t lap at it like a mad woman – be seductive. Let your tongue slide around it, teasing him. Use lots of saliva to make it slippery and try digging the very tip of your tongue down into the eye. Not too far, just a little. Read his reactions and learn what works for him and what doesn’t.
Gradually move your mouth down over his shaft whilst cupping his balls in your hand. Move your head in a figure eight whilst moving up and down in a kind of pumping action while you let your tongue run along his shaft. Suck gently.
After a while, move down to his balls and gently lick and suck them while using your hand on his shaft.
When you’re ready to move back to his cock, this is the time to finish him off. Use both your mouth and hands to masturbate him, moving them in sync. Should he start pushing your head down on his cock, move your tongue to the back of your throat to stop him gagging you. This is important as a gag can lead to a bite!
What you do now is entirely up to you. You can either let him cum in your mouth, or you can move your mouth away and finish off with a few strokes of the hand while he shoots. Perhaps you could let him shoot on your body for added excitement?
That’s it. You should have the general idea now so all you have to do is get out there and start practising. After all, practise makes perfect.
Sadie xxx
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