All too often, when we’re in a relationship we start to take each other for granted and forget to do things to please each other. If you’re a woman who’s been ignoring her man for too long, here are a few tips to help you bring a little spice back into life.
To give him an evening he’ll remember, start before he gets home from work. Take the day off and send him a text message at lunch time hinting at what he might expect later. Don’t be too obvious, you just want to tease him enough for him to spend the rest of the afternoon wearing a smile while he wonders what you’re up to.
While he’s at work, take a long, luxurious bath and let your thoughts wander to what you’re planning for later. BUT, not matter how horny you get, don’t relieve yourself.
When you’re finished, clean the bath and then have it ready for his arrival. Bring him an ice-cold beer and a warm, fluffy towel and sit naked, waiting for him to finish. By all means help him wash his back.
Remember, candlelight is always far more flattering than harsh electric lights so turn off the mains and light some scented candles instead. This goes for both the bathroom and the bedroom.
Lay him down on the bed and massage him gently. Use a good massage oil with just the right amount of scent. Cheap oils with too much scent could mean you end up with a headache and that’s not exactly the desired effect, is it? Remember to warm the oil in your hands before your massage him, too.
As he relaxes, gradually let your massage become more intimate until the two of you come together, your skin slithering against each other as you enjoy the outcome of a wonderful, relaxing evening.
Sadie xxx
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