Before I start, I want to tell you that I’ve never participated in fisting so if any of the details here are wrong, please forgive me. However, a friend who is into the fisting scene has explained how to go about fisting for the first time and I’ve tried to reproduce what she’s told me as accurately as possible.
The most important thing to always remember is that you should take you time. Plenty of it. Fisting isn’t something you can rush into, regardless of what you may have seen on porno films.
You may have to try many, many times before you succeed in giving or receiving a fist. One finger at a time, gradually opening the vagina until it’s able to take the fist. Remember, a baby can come out, so as long as you use enough time and plenty of lubrication, are careful not to cause pain, a fist should be able to go in.
Evidently, when a fist is finally inserted, the woman’s orgasms will be stronger than anything she’s ever experienced before. Personally I’m perfectly happy with mine the way they are – fisting just looks too painful to me – but each to their own and if you want to try, why not?
Fisting’s popular in the BDSM culture, although it should never be done to inflict pain without the woman first being used to having a fist inserted. And even then the greatest care should be taken because the vagina can so easily be injured.
Remember: take your time and make sure you use plenty of lubrication. And if a woman can’t manage to take a fist, there’s no point pressing it. Sex should be fun, not a chore!
Sadie xxx
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