Are you one of those women who worries that there’s something wrong with her because she doesn’t cum during intercourse? Have you seen porn movies where the women scream in delight every time a cock’s inside them and wonder why that doesn’t happen to you? Well let me tell you now – you’re perfectly normal.
For every woman who does experience orgasm during intercourse, there’s one who doesn’t – maybe even more than one. For us, stimulation of the clitoris is the most common way of being brought over the edge and the g-spot, although it’s there, isn’t always easy to find. A lot depends on the position used and while a lot of women say they find it easier to come during intercourse while in the doggy position — including me — that isn’t necessarily the case for everyone. It’s all a matter of trial and error.
But even if, after trying and trying, you still aren’t cumming during humping, don’t worry. You’re not abnormal.
Most men are more than happy to help their partner along with some post-coitus clitoral stimulation, and some women are able to cum with some extra clitoral stimulation during intercourse. Again, just try different things and see what does and doesn’t work for you.
What’s really important is that you relax. If you’re uptight because you’re worried that you won’t cum, then the chances are you won’t. Stress and anxiety are never good to go to bed with.
Sadie xx
~~+~~