OK, here goes. This one’s for all you ladies who have emailed asking me whether or not I can deep throat and could I please explain how it’s done.
First of all, let me quickly explain what deep throating is. It’s an oral sex technique where the penis is taken down into the throat without gagging. For those of you who don’t know, it’s a technique made popular by Linda Lovelace, the ex porn star who sadly died after a serious road accident.
Just as we can learn not to blink in order to put in contact lenses, we can learn not to gag when something comes in contact with the back of the throat. However, there are limits — a person who has a small throat will have problems deep throating a thick penis — but as long as you know your limits and your partner respects them, it should be possible to enjoy giving and receiving deep throat fellatio.
For a woman who dislikes the taste of semen and a man who likes to cum in his lady’s mouth, deep throating is the perfect solution. Because the head of the penis is so far back that it’s behind the taste buds on the tongue, when the man ejaculates, the woman will taste nothing. BUT (isn’t there always a but involved somewhere?) it’s important the man is aware of the woman’s reactions – if she shows signs of difficulty swallowing the semen, it’s important he pulls out immediately.
OK… so let’s start the lesson.
Before you try this for the first time, it’s important you’re relaxed. Play some relaxing music and have a glass of wine or two. Make sure your partner understands that he mustn’t rush you while you’re working on taking his penis to the back of your throat because it can take weeks of practise before you’re finally able to master the technique.
Start with your partner laying on the bed while you kneel over him. This puts you in control, something that’s important when you’re first learning to deep throat.
The penis needs to be lubricated so that it’ll slide nicely into position, speaking of which, find a position where your mouth and throat are in a straight line (you can always practise this beforehand so that you’re ready to get into position when you try with your partner).
Now comes the tricky part. Open your mouth and pretend that you’re yawning. This will open your throat as wide as possible. Try to keep your mouth and throat in that open position, stick your tongue out as if you were being examined by a doctor, and lower your head over your partner’s penis. Let it slide over your tongue, into your mouth and further into your throat.
If you feel yourself gagging, pull away and relax for a while before trying again. Perhaps even wait until another night.
As I said, it can take weeks to perfect the technique so don’t get upset if you’re not able to deep throat right away. Practise, as they say, makes perfect. And you can have a lot of fun practising.
Sadie xxx
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