Are you considering joining the swinging community but aren’t sure whether it’s really for you? If that’s the case, let me assure you that a huge percentage of those who enjoy the sexual freedom of swinging were once in exactly the same position.
Nobody can be absolutely sure that they’ll enjoy swinging before they actually try it, but it’s like everything else, if you don’t try you’ll never know.
You wouldn’t have known whether or not you like Chinese food if you hadn’t taken the step and tried it once, would you? How would have you known what drink you prefer, which perfume or aftershave suits you, which holiday destination you love without once having taken a chance and tried it? It’s exactly the same with swinging. If you try it and don’t like it, what have you lost? Not a lot.
It’s also important to understand that all clubs and parties aren’t the same. You could be unlucky and visit a club that just isn’t the right one for you. My advice is to not be put off if your first swinging experience wasn’t as enjoyable as you’d expected. Try again and see whether you can find a club that’s better suited to you.
Obviously, if the whole concept of having sex with strangers was off-putting once you tried it then swinging probably isn’t for you, but once again, you can’t know if you don’t try.
Sadie xxx