Did you know that while dating sites are losing popularity, swingers’ sites are gaining it?Evidently, more and more people are turning away from online dating and going back to the conventional ways of finding a partner, but because it isn’t so easy to find other swingers just by walking into a pub or chatting with somebody over lunch at work, swingers’ sites are growing like crazy!

To be honest, it doesn’t surprise me in the least. Sex is just as popular as love - I mean, sex is a part of love but it’s also a part of having a good time. What I’m saying is that love doesn’t necessarily have to be involved for people to want sex so it makes sense that more people would be looking for sex than for love. You’re with me there, right?

Malc and I have joined several swingers’ sites and have found some really good friends through them. One couple live in Scotland so we don’t get to see them too often but when we do go up for the weekend, man do we have fun! Red hot fun!!

If you’re looking to get into the swinging scene, or just want to broaden your swinging horizons, I’d highly recommend you try a few swingers’ sites. It worked for us so why not for you?

Sadie xx

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I bet you do!

I’ve yet to meet a man who hasn’t fantasised about a threesome and a hell of a lot of women are turned on by the idea, too. The problem is, for most, that they don’t know how to go about finding somebody to join them, either a single if they’re already part of a couple or vice versa. And even when they find a website that has swingers advertising on it, they often don’t understand the terminology.

The first thing to remember is that you need to know beforehand exactly who you’re looking for. If, for example, your wife isn’t interested in sex with another woman, there’s little point in answering ads from bi-sexual women. Similarly, if you’re a bi-sexual guy, you’ll want to find ads placed by couples who are looking for somebody who will service them both.

It might well be worthwhile placing an ad of your own, too. That way you can make it clear exactly who you’re looking for, how far you can travel, whether you can accommodate, etc etc. By being as clear as possible, there’s far less chance of meeting others who, when it cums to it, aren’t actually suitable at all.

When it comes to the two main types of threesomes, remember the following:

FFM: this means two females and a male and is the most common type of threesome. In most cases the females will be bi so it’s probably safe to assume so if nothing else is mentioned. It’s always worth asking to be sure, though.

FMM: you’ve probably guessed that this one means one female and two men. Although not as common as FFM, it’s a whole lot of fun and well worth experimenting with. The guys don’t have to be bi and in these cases, if they are they probably WILL mention it. Even if you’re mostly into FFM, you’ll probably find that most women will be only too pleased to be serviced by two guys… and a lot of male partners enjoy watching their wives/partners being given a good seeing to.

If you think a threesome is something you’d seriously like to try, why not sign up at Adult Connexxxions – one of the biggest swingers dating sites I’ve found. I’ve used it on several occasions myself and haven’t been disappointed

Sadie xxx

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It’s been a while since I last placed an ad on a swingers dating site but seeing some of the replies a friend of mine recently received brought it all back to me.Guys - take some advice from a lady who knows what she’s talking about.

Responding to an ad with something like “Hi darling. How about letting me fill you up with my 9 inch cock? I know just what a woman wants and if you meet me, you won’t be disappointed” isn’t likely to impress anybody.

If that guy really knew what a women wanted, he wouldn’t be bragging about his 9 inches! Come on, who do you think you’re kidding? Have you any idea how many men actually have cocks that size? Some tiny percentage, that’s how many! And just as well, because while a lot of gay blokes may go wild at the prospect of a big dick, most women are much happier with the standard 6 - 7 inches. A vagina just isn’t designed to take a donkey, don’t you know!

Second mistake. Don’t go on and on about your divorce and that because you’ve been hurt by women you’d much rather just have some no-strings sex than get involved again. Not only is it bloody boring, but women generally aren’t interested in blokes who come across as “women haters”. We don’t want to be “used” just because we’re swingers, y’know!

Just send a friendly email letting her know a bit about you and what you like but without being crude (just because we swing doesn’t mean we’re into crudity, either) and show interest in her, too. Ask her questions so that she has something to reply to. Don’t brag and don’t make promises you can’t keep.

Now get yourself back to that dating site and try again.

9 inch cock, ha bloody ha!

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