I have to admit that I quite like nice tight balls on a man but for some reason, a lot of men seem to think they’re not masculine enough and would prefer to have a pair that hang more. They say they like the feel of them being weighed in a partner’s hand and pulled on slightly, something that can’t really be done when the balls sit high.

Luckily, there are ways of helping the balls become more pendulous.

Take ball stretchers, for example. When used, they hold the balls down and allow them to be tugged – a sensation that I’ve understood is as good for men as having the nipples sucked is for women. These particular ball stretchers are available in two weights although, not being a man, I’ve no idea why.

Evidently, when only an old-fashioned type of ball stretcher was available, blokes had to thread the scrotal skin through the hole then follow up with the testes themselves. Because balls come in many different sizes, getting the size right was always a difficult issue. These new fangled ones are much easier to use, though. They’re hinged so you open them, lay the balls in place, and then close them comfortably.

So there you have it. If you’re a bloke who wants his bollocks to swing and sway a bit more than is the case at the present, get yourself one with a split collar ring and get stretching.

Sadie xx

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sex aids

I’m sure I’m not the only one who opens her email inbox in the morning only to find it filled to bursting point with spam ads for Viagra and other forms of medication that I neither need nor want. But even though I’m not interested in Viagra, I accept that for some it’s been a godsend. But do you now how it works?

First of all, in order to understand how Viagra works, you need to understand how the penis works. Because it doesn’t have any muscles it’s dependent on pressure from blood flowing in to it in order to make it move (become erect). When the blood rushes into it, it’s sort of like air being blown in.

The blood flows into the penis through two arteries and it’s when one remains constricted—as it is while it’s limp in order to stop blood flowing in—that erection problems arise (otherwise known as penile dysfunction). Enter Viagra whose job it is to open the artery and allow blood to pass through.

Viagra makes sure that the penis receives the blood it needs by acting on the tissue surrounding the arteries when a man becomes aroused. Exactly how it does this is far too scientific to answer in a short blog post but it’s generally enough to know that it won’t cause erections amongst men who aren’t aroused, a fear that many appear to have. It reacts with enzymes that are released during arousal so there’s really no reason to think that if you take Viagra, you’ll end up walking around with a boner all day.

One final word. If you are thinking about using Viagra or a similar drug, speak to your GP first. Ordering drugs over the Internet is never a safe way of going about dealing with health matters.

Sadie xxx

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penile dysfunction

Cock rings. We’ve all heard of them but a lot of us haven’t a clue what they’re all about. So here goes: Sadie’s guide to using a cock ring.A cock ring goes around the base of the penis and scrotum allowing the blood to flow into the penis, thus engorging it, but restricting the blood from flowing out again. In other words, the penis stays hard longer.

The mistake most often made is trying to put a cock ring on after the penis is erect. Forget it. It ain’t gonna happen. You have to put it on a flaccid penis, whether you like it or not.

Cock rings are generally made of either chrome or rubber and because these need to fit properly, shouldn’t be bought via mail order or the Internet. If the cock ring’s too loose it won’t work, and if it’s too tight it’ll be way too uncomfortable once the penis is erect. Not only that, you could find that your dick won’t go down again leaving you with no other choice than to take a trip to A&E to have it removed.

There is another typetype of cock ring available, though. These are made from leather with snappers to use to adjust the size. Obviously, these can be ordered online or by mail order and, for beginners at least, are probably the safest choice.

To put a cock ring on, the balls have to be threaded through the ring first, and then the penis. The reason it has to be done in this order is because a flaccid penis can be squeezed and tucked in order to fit through the ring, whereas — as any man will tell you — the balls need careful handling. Removal is the reverse of this process.

So there you go - Sadie’s guide to cock rings.

I’m off to find Malc’s cock ring now so that I can have some fun of my own.

Sadie xx

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