If you’ve just decided to try swinging and have been using a swingers contact site in order to find others to swing with, one thing that you really ought to be aware of is photo collectors.
Some guys sign up as members of swingers sites just so that they can get explicit photos of singles and couples – the kind of ‘real’ photos that are rarely found on the Net otherwise.
My advice is this: when you start exchanging messages with somebody you’ve met on a swingers site, think carefully about how they ask to exchange photos. If it’s one of the first thing the other person/couple does then warning bells should ring because serious swingers will hardly ever do that; they’ll get to know you first and decide whether or not they’re likely to feel comfortable meeting you before they ask for photos.
Leave it a few days before you agree to send photos – if the other person is serious then they’ll wait. If not, they’ll move on and look for another ‘victim’.
Also, if they seem too interested in the photo then think twice about continuing your contact. If you’re chatting about something else and they keep trying to bring the conversation back to photos, forget them and find somebody else.
Unfortunately, just about every swingers dating site has its share of photo collectors but if you use your common sense, you should be ok.
Sadie xxx
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