Following on from yesterday’s post, I thought I’d share a few BDSM games with you. Obviously, this isn’t an extensive list – far from it – but the least I can do is share with you the games I’ve been involved in and that I’ve thought were fun.
Chopsticks – I was at a party once when a guy whipped a pair of chopsticks from the table (we’d had a Chinese meal beforehand), put one above and below my nipple and bound them together at each end with an elastic band (I’ve no idea where he found them!). The sensation was incredible and I’ve often since wondered what it would have been like if he’d done the same thing with my clitoris. Hmmm… must mention that to Malc!
Electric Toothbrush – Malc did this to me and I highly recommend you try it. Hold your electric toothbrush against your own or your partner’s clit and enjoy! Can also be used on the head of the penis.
Orgasm Denial – Often used by dom females on submissive men. There are hundreds of ways of doing this but the basic idea is always the same: to stop your partner from having an orgasm. How long you deny them is up to you. It can be an hour, a day or even a week. Keep them on the brink, though, for maximum fun.
Living Doll – I wonder if this was what Sir Cliff was thinking of when he sang about his living doll? Basically, one partner agrees to be the doll and is used in any way in order to bring satisfaction to the other partner who can place him/her in any position and take any action. The ‘doll’ mustn’t take an active role in any way whatsoever.
Public Undies – Send your partner to work, the shops, to the theatre or wherever wearing your underwear.
BDSM games are really only restricted by your imagination. If it involves a dominant and a submissive partner then it’s BDSM, regardless of whether it’s soft or hard play.
Most of us have enjoyed it at some time, and if we find the kind of BDSM games that are right for us, we can go on enjoying them for a long, long time.
Sadie xxx
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