Whenever I look at the people enjoying themselves at clubs or parties, there’s one thing that always springs to mind: the fact that people come in all shapes and sizes and everything’s normal.
Unfortunately we live in a size obsessed society where magazine editors and model agencies want to have us believe that a body bigger than a size 8 is unacceptable. What tosh!
Lots of men are turned on by big ladies and don’t give a brass tack for birds with no meat on them. I’m no Kate Moss but I’ve been passed over more than once because I wasn’t plump enough, so I know from experience that BBWs have their fair share of admirers amongst swingers.
What’s sad is that too many BBWs have low self esteem, but it doesn’t have to be that way. If you’re one of them, it’s time for you to sit up and recognise that being plus sized can be bloody brilliant! For every bloke who wants to shag Kate Beckinsale, there are just as many that’d give their right arm for a roll in the hay with Dawn French!
Embrace your Big Beautiful Womanhood!
Another problem some big ladies have is that they’re not sure how to find a swinger’s scene that appreciates ample curves.
If that’s the case, try an ad in the local paper letting BBW fans know that you want be their large sized lover. Contact local swingers clubs and ask if they offer parties for BBW, a lot of them do and maybe those who don’t will consider it once they realise there’s a need for it.
It’s all about confidence in who you are, and when you find a swingers scene that caters to BBW lovers, that confidence will be irresistible.
Freddy Mercury was bang on! Fat bottomed girls you make the rocking world go round!
Sadie xxx
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