I wanted to add a follow up to my recent post on private swingers’ parties.

Even though I touched on the subject of conducting yourself in a mature and responsible manner, I thought it best to include more detail on the most common problem associated with this or any other party… drinking too much.

We all know the euphoric effects alcohol can have on our behaviour, but in a specific setting like a private swingers’ party, those same effects can prove disastrous.

Who hasn’t been to a party where someone gets smashed and makes an arse of themselves? Christ! There have been times when the arse has been me!

Imagine that arse belching and hiccupping over your partner (well, not really an arse but you know what I mean). At the same time he’s unsuccessfully trying to unzip his pants. Not a pretty picture is it?

Apart from the obviously embarrassing spectacle, such behaviour can quickly and permanently get you banned from future events, especially if you’re attending your first swinging party.

I’m not suggesting that you don’t drink, just do it responsibly. In fact, a few drinks may even serve to make you more comfortable if you are new to the swinging scene, but less is definitely more.

Remember that if your intention is to meet other partners or couples for swinging, there is nothing less attractive than a boorish, obnoxious drunk.

Sadie xx