Do you know what really surprises me? The number of people who go through their lives with some kind of sexual desire that’s never fulfilled.OK, if you’d like to try having oral sex whilst hanging from a parachute that’s several hundred foot in the air, it’s understandable that it’ll have to remain a fantasy, but I’ve heard people talk about wanting their toes sucked (see shrimping), or to have sex on the beach in broad daylight. Surely that kind of thing’s easy enough to fulfil?

The problem is, far too many people are afraid to tell their partners what it is they want from sex. They just go along with the same old stuff, letting their partners believe they’re satisfied because he sometimes gives it to her from behind or she’ll occasionally dress up in saucy undies, but all the while, frustration’s growing inside them.

Not only do you owe it to yourself to be honest about what you want, you owe it to your relationship, too. Far too many couples end up going their separate ways because they weren’t sexually compatible, but the truth is, if they’d only talked about things more, they may well have found they were more compatible than they thought.

Open up, folks. If you’re not happy now, things can only get better.

Sadie xx

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