First of all, apologies for not posting as early in the day as I usually do but as you know, Malc and I have been staying with friends for a few nights and, to be honest, last night left me so totally knackered that World War III wouldn’t have woken me, let alone the alarm on mobile phone! When I finally crawled into the office this morning, it wasn’t without a certain amount of comment along the lines of “you look shagged, Sadie.” You don’t say?!
Anyway, I was chatting with the friends we’re staying with and we all agreed that one of the most common misunderstandings about swingers is that we’re easy; that we’ll have sex with just about anybody who offers. What a load of dog’s danglies that is!
I, for one, am very selective about who I’ll have sex with and most of my friends are the same. If I’m not attracted to somebody then it just isn’t going to happen, and when I say attracted, I mean more than just “Phwoar! He’s got a big donger!” I need to be attracted to the whole person: they have to be clean, smart, have a body that they obviously care about and a personality that I click with. Obviously, that rules out quite a few people!
There’s a guy at our club who I’d never have sex of any kind with. He’s bloody good-looking, there’s no doubt about that, and has a body to die for, but I just don’t like his personality. He reckons himself just a bit too much for my liking. Malc’s convinced it’s just a front because he doesn’t really have a whole lot of confidence and he could well be right, but he just does not turn me on.
So, if you’ve landed here simply because you’re curious about the swinging lifestyle and what swingers get up to, please at least learn one thing: we’re not a bunch of slappers and sleezeballs – we’re normal people who just happen to like sex in a different from to those who prefer to stick with one partner.
Sadie xxx
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